If you’re feeling like yourself and your partner’s sex-life isn’t everything it could be right now, or you’re just running out of things to keep it heated in the bedroom and Bedroom communication, it might be time to try some couple’s sex toys.
At first, a sex toy may sound intimidating, especially as you’d be introducing it into partner play, but they’re perfect for pleasure, and reigniting the sexual spark as a part of Bedroom communication!
How a couple’s toy could reignite that spark- Bedroom communication
There are many reasons to invest in a quality sex toy for your partner play, however a main reason that couple’s enjoy using toys is shared pleasure. Deciding to invest in a couple’s toy means that you’ve both made a commitment to your pleasure as a couple.
Couple’s toys can increase communication, which is something a lot of couples have trouble with, as they require you to communicate about what feels good, and what you like/dislike. They also help you to explore and learn about each other’s bodies, as well as learning about the things you enjoy as a couple.
Maybe there is a fantasy you have, which you’d love to try- a couple’s toy could help with bringing your sexy dreams to life! If you’re craving double penetration, but you don’t want a third party in the mix, there are plenty of toys available to aid with this.
Whatever you’re craving to bring you closer together, sexually, a couple’s toy could save your sex-life!
Best types of couple’s toys to try
Bullet vibrator– A bullet vibrator is a great way to introduce new sensations into your sex-life, without a large toy in the way of you and your partner. Using a bullet vibe on your partner can be a sensual experience as you pleasure them, or if they’re using it on themselves during partner play, it can be a sexy show to watch!
Dildo- Investing in a dildo for you and your partner is a brilliant commitment to recapturing that passion! Though it can sound intimidating if you’ve never used one before, a dildo is great for introducing double penetration into a penis/vagina relationship, without any of the potential jealousy of introducing another party!
Strap-on/ strapless strap-on/ hollow strap-on– Perhaps seen as a more adventurous toy, the strap-on can give immense pleasure to both yourself and your partner. Before sex, decide who will wear the strap-on and ensure that you’re both comfortable with it; communication throughout is important, as you want to make sure both you and your partner are enjoying yourselves, and feel comfortable!
Strap-ons can spice up a relationship, as they can be used to simulate the feeling of a threesome, without any jealousy getting in the way!
– A simple strap-on is brilliant for those in a relationship with two vaginas, as one person can wear, and one can receive.
– A strapless-strap on is great for a relationship with two vaginas, or a vagina and a penis, as the curved end of the strap-on is inserted into the vagina (with special attention on the wearer’s G-spot), and the shaft end inserted into the anus, vagina, or mouth.
– A hollow strap-on is specially designed for a penis to be inserted into the hollow space of the shaft; this is especially good for those who want to add a little extra length to their penis, or for those with erectile dysfunction.
Sex swing- If you’re ready to experience suspended bliss, then a sex swing could change your sex-life for the better! Sex swings are great toys as they allow you to achieve positions which just aren’t accessible when you’re on any other surface.
The feeling of being suspended, and in a sense helpless, can be a major turn on; or if you’re the one standing, dominating your lover and having them at your mercy, can get those fires burning!
You might be wondering if a sex swing might be a bit of a turn off if you have to get the toolbox out in order to assemble it to your ceiling, however not all sex swings require this kind of installation- there are over door sex swings available, which are ready to use at a moment’s notice.
Double ended dildo/ double jack off sleeve- A double-ended dildo is great for those in vagina/vagina relationships, vagina/penis relationships, and penis/penis relationships! Yep, these double-ended dreams are equipped for any and every hole. They come in all sorts of sizes, materials, textures, colors, and shapes, and are sure not to disappoint. They’re great for spicing up your sex-life as you and your partner can equally enjoy the toy, and ride back and forth together into orgasmic bliss.
A double jack off sleeve is perfect for penis/penis relationships, as one end of the sleeve sits on your penis, while the other end sits on your partner’s penis; you can each move back and forth, in any position you prefer!
Bondage kit- NOTE: There is a vast array of toys available for bondage play, but before delving into the world of bdsm/bondage, you and your partner should communicate about what you like/dislike etc. You should also have a safe word (or action if mouth is restricted) which has been decided before sex!
Investing in a bondage kit can be an exciting step towards reigniting the fire in your relationship for Bedroom communication; bondage kits will usually include an array of items to experiment with, including sensory items to heighten sensitivity, and restraints for power-play!