Intimacy is the beating heart of any romantic relationship, and exploring new ways to connect with your partner can lead to profound experiences. Some couples sex machines together, and some get an automatic partner long before they get a living, breathing one.
This leads to our point – the need to discuss that pleasure monster in your bedroom. Let me tell you – though it won’t be the easiest process or the most pleasant conversation, the results can be truly effervescent for your relationship. Here’s a comprehensive guide on navigating your sex machine together and why he might love it too.
Open Communication is Key
It may be a “duh” moment, but I cannot begin without it. Before broaching the topic of your sex machine, it’s crucial to establish open and honest communication with your lover. Initiate a conversation about exploring new ways to enhance intimacy in your relationship. Be honest and open, and make them know you are not expecting anything in return immediately. By showing vulnerability and trust, you lay the foundation for a deeper emotional connection that can strengthen your bond.
Choose the Right Moment
Timing is essential when introducing the idea of a love machine to your partner. Avoid springing the concept on your boyfriend while you two are in bed – pulling out that monster lover in the middle of sexy time can spook them. The times of stress might not be the best, also. Instead, pick a calm moment when you can be fully present and attentive to each other’s feelings and concerns. A chilly night in would be perfect.
Highlight the Insane Pleasure & Health Benefits
When discussing the sex machine, focus on the positive and potential benefits it can bring to your relationship. Emphasize that it’s not about replacing them or seeking something lacking in the relationship but rather about exploring new dimensions of pleasure and connection. Explain how the love machine can add excitement, variety, and novelty to your intimate experiences and strengthen your emotional bond as a couple.
Tell About The Different Attachments
Many sex machines have masturbator attachments as well as dildo attachments, so they can experience the intensity and the “orgasmicality” that you love so much firsthand.
Make A Case For Prostate Massage
Prostate massage by a sex machine is another level of satisfaction. With rhythmic penetration, your sweetheart can achieve dry orgasms, also known as multiple orgasms for men.
Argument The Threesome Fantasy
If a threesome is something you both have fantasized about, but anxiety & pressure have held you back, opting to make the sex machine “your third” can be a fantastic alternative. Here’re a few ideas on how to use the sex machine as a tool in your threesome fantasy:
- Ride it while you give them head
- Give it head as they pound into you
- Let it thrust you as they lick your clit
- Take them in your vag and the machine in your booty (or vice versa) for DP penetration
It’ll be safer, easier to arrange, and risk-free. You can create a safe space where you both explore and fulfill your fantasies together.
Respect Consent and Boundaries
Respect your boyfriend’s feelings and boundaries during the conversation. Be open to any questions or concerns, and assure them their feelings are valid. Remember, consent is crucial in any aspect of intimacy, including introducing new elements like a love machine. Acknowledge his feelings and discuss alternative options if they express discomfort or hesitancy.
Start Slowly and Build Trust
If your boyfriend shows interest in trying out the love machine, don’t jump it on them. Incorporate it into your intimate moments as an exciting addition rather than the sole focus. A good idea would be to be the one who uses it (as foreplay, for example) and invite them to watch and yield the remote control. Allow them to feel in control and empowered during the experience, and show how much you enjoy what they’re doing to you.
So How Do You Introduce Your Sex Machine To Your SO?
Begin your convo by discussing all the dimensions of pleasure and intimacy through open communication, understanding, and consent. Remember to mention that the sex machine is not about replacing human connection but enhancing it – rather, it is a tool you can use to achieve incredible orgasms.