Cutting to the chase, you really shouldn’t have to ‘try’ to enjoy virtual sex. It’s a wholly enjoyable and pleasurable pursuit by its nature, making it difficult to go wrong.
In today’s uber-connected world, more people than ever before are diving headfirst into the joys of virtual sex. In fact, some studies suggest that the prevalence and popularity of video dates and sex video chat services worldwide have grown by almost 1,000% over the past few years.
Today, everybody (or near enough) carries with them all they need to enjoy virtual sex on a 24/7 basis. Either via a smartphone with a built-in camera or a home computer with a webcam, you’re basically locked, loaded, and ready to go.
But when it comes to having the best possible virtual sex, a few tips and tricks from the pros can go a long way.
Here’s what you need to do to make every virtual date you take part in an experience to remember:
1. Take it slow
If this is your first time experimenting with virtual sex, don’t be too tempted to rush into the whole thing, all guns blazing. Take your time, and accept the fact that there will be something of a learning curve to negotiate. This way, you will be able to enjoy the experience without putting too much unnecessary pressure on yourself. Think of those first few virtual dates as practice sessions, gradually arming you with the knowledge, skills, and confidence to take things to the next level.
2. Set the scene
Like any conventional date, a virtual date can only be enjoyed to its fullest in the right setting. All too often, people get fired up for virtual dates and dive straight into the action, without taking their backdrop and the general ambience into the equation. Needless to say, the wrong setting for any date can be a real mood killer. Think about your surroundings, eliminate as many distractions as possible, and set the scene as you would with any other date.
3. Get your hardware in order
It sounds like a no-brainer, and indeed it is. Even so, the importance of ensuring all of your hardware is working as it should warrant emphasizing. Low-quality webcams, unreliable Internet connections, and cellphones that haven’t been charged – all guaranteed to wreck what could have been a fantastic virtual sex session. The same can also be said for the lighting you’ll be using to give your partner a good view of you, which needs to be just right.
4. Look the part
Virtual sex is not the same as simply jacking off to porn. It’s a two-way encounter, where both participants gain equal enjoyment from the experience. Hence, you need to make the effort to look the part, just as you would expect your partner to do on your behalf. Dress in the same kinds of clothes you would on a conventional date, and ensure your grooming is in check. Wear clothes that are comfortable but that also make you feel confident in your appearance.
5. Take tips from the pros
Taking part in a few sex video chat sessions online before a virtual date (in the conventional sense) comes highly recommended. Hooking up with professional cam girls really is the best way to learn the ropes with virtual sex. You’ll find out how the whole thing works, you’ll learn what turns women on remotely, and you’ll pick up a whole bunch of moves to try out on your date. Practice makes perfect, and there’s no better way to practice than with those who do this kind of thing for a living.
6. Ask questions
Not sure what she wants you to do? Concerned that what you’re doing isn’t working for her? Why not just ask her outright? Contrary to popular belief, asking questions during sexual encounters isn’t a bad thing. Quite the opposite, it not only gives you the opportunity to give her exactly what she wants, but it also shows you genuinely care about her needs, her preferences, and her pleasure.
7. Keep it lighthearted
Stone-faced porn clips populated by muscle-clad, heavy-breathing freaks are not an accurate depiction of how sex takes place in the real world. Back on planet earth, sex should be fun – an enjoyable and lighthearted experience full of smiles and even laughter. There’s really nothing that bonds couples more than being able to laugh together and enjoy sex without the whole thing becoming too serious or formal. Something to remember when taking part in virtual dates, where a good giggle really can hold the key to an unforgettable experience.
